As I move forward into my quintessential quarter life crisis I thought I’d share my pearls of wisdom that I’ve learnt along the way. I think the older I get, the more I value the friendships and relationships I have. Quality over quantity people! I’d also like to think that my ‘bullshit’ mere is pretty spot on, or at least, getting sharper – I’m able to spot a fuckboy from a mile away and ninja my way out of awkward situations.
The Lessons
1. Patience is virtue – although it might not be my virtue, it’s something that I’ve deemed to be important. This means not going home with the first fella that gives you a sly wink and waiting for the second…I kid I kid!
I vow to not rush into things and realise that good things come to those who wait.
2. Everyone is going to get engaged, married and have babies – although the mere thought of a serious commitment or having babies is vomit inducing to me, I can appreciate that it might seem like rainbows and sunshine to others
I vow to not feel the need to jump on the bandwagon of serious monogamy and procreation
3. Friendships come and go – and that’s ok. People come in and out of your life for a reason so if they’re not adding anything to your life, let them go!
I vow to realise when friendships are negative and let them run free.
4. Fries before guys – self explanatory really, I love fries and they are more important than guys
I vow to always eat fries.
5. It’s ok to splurge once in a while – if you’ve had your eye on a dress, pair of shoes or piece of jewellery, splurge now while you only have yourself to look after!
I vow to buy that dress I’ve had my eye on
6. Be grateful – don’t focus on what you don’t have, focus on all the things you do have, your health, your friends, your family. Positive minds breed a positive life
I vow to be grateful for all that I have
7. That guy that you think is the end all and be all isn’t – I’ve learnt this the hard way but am grateful for the experience as it’s taught me I can get over anyone/anything
I vow to not be so hung up on anyone that I can’t see past them
8. Being a slag every now and then is ok – but probably not a good permanent life decision
I vow to let my inner slag dance that slaggy dance
9. Obsessing over what you look like is a waste of time – you’ll never truly be happy or satisfied so why waste your time worrying if you’ve done enough exercise or punishing yourself for eating that slice of cake?
I vow to not stress about what I look like or how much I weigh…and to eat that slice of cake
10. Travel! Go forth and see the world and all that it has to offer! I leave on my adventure in 19 days and counting and cannot wait!
I vow to see and experience everything that’s on offer
11. Treat Yo Self – have that facial, get that pedicure, wax that fanny, put yourself (and your goodies) first
I vow to always keep it hair free and fancy free
12. Life isn’t fair – shit happens. It’s how you deal with it that matters. You’re also going to fail, and that’s ok too, you’re not made to be perfect.
I vow to not be knocked down when shitty things happen
Your life only matters if you make it matter.
You only matter if you decide that you matter.